A friend of mine asked me this question and My Answers is :
The need for relationship counseling cannot be emphasized enough, because we live in a world that over and over again encourages the marriage. As in our society marriage has been part of God's plan for His creation, and maximum societies fervently are in favor this precious tradition. If we need evidence that we are in trouble, just take a look at the divorce rate and you will find marriage still holds a rhythm. Relationship counseling has drastically failed to address problems and issues. If problems are dealt with in a timely manner between the two, they can fester and bring further continuation to a marriage. While problems are common to every marriage, and we have the means to solve them. Think of it as a deflecting virus and before it takes hold of our bodies I believe prevention is better than a cure , we can sort out small differences by a dialogue instead we blame each other for some inappropriate and bring in an outsider so called canceller to sort out our problems . An appropriate response can prevent the virus, and will help us to storm and rebound stronger as a result. So in any relationship especially between a man and woman it is important to recognize and acknowledge problems early and sort out themselves. Marriage counseling can brings attention to these problems which you would have solved yourself and thus and helps increasing differences instead of resolving them. Prevalent problems include poor communication, a lack of closeness or intimacy, nagging, or anger. At the root of many of these problems is pride, lack of understanding, independence instead of freedom. We often believe that an outsider can solve our problem; this can be irritating in a marriage, especially when one spouse recognizes a need for help and the other refuses. .Think why our parents never needed a canceller to sort out problems between them? Most of the times problems are relational, a result of shyness to interact on certain issues or emotional, intellectual or physical। Other serious problems that could affect a relation are infidelity, pornography, emotional wounds, mental conditions, etc. When these problems are dealt between them which cause potential crush threat to the marriage. There is no need of a counceller .
The need for relationship counseling cannot be emphasized enough, because we live in a world that over and over again encourages the marriage. As in our society marriage has been part of God's plan for His creation, and maximum societies fervently are in favor this precious tradition. If we need evidence that we are in trouble, just take a look at the divorce rate and you will find marriage still holds a rhythm. Relationship counseling has drastically failed to address problems and issues. If problems are dealt with in a timely manner between the two, they can fester and bring further continuation to a marriage. While problems are common to every marriage, and we have the means to solve them. Think of it as a deflecting virus and before it takes hold of our bodies I believe prevention is better than a cure , we can sort out small differences by a dialogue instead we blame each other for some inappropriate and bring in an outsider so called canceller to sort out our problems . An appropriate response can prevent the virus, and will help us to storm and rebound stronger as a result. So in any relationship especially between a man and woman it is important to recognize and acknowledge problems early and sort out themselves. Marriage counseling can brings attention to these problems which you would have solved yourself and thus and helps increasing differences instead of resolving them. Prevalent problems include poor communication, a lack of closeness or intimacy, nagging, or anger. At the root of many of these problems is pride, lack of understanding, independence instead of freedom. We often believe that an outsider can solve our problem; this can be irritating in a marriage, especially when one spouse recognizes a need for help and the other refuses. .Think why our parents never needed a canceller to sort out problems between them? Most of the times problems are relational, a result of shyness to interact on certain issues or emotional, intellectual or physical। Other serious problems that could affect a relation are infidelity, pornography, emotional wounds, mental conditions, etc. When these problems are dealt between them which cause potential crush threat to the marriage. There is no need of a counceller .
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